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Thousands At OP Chick-fil-A Supporting Free Speech and ‘Traditional’ Marriage

In the wake of Chick-fil-A president’s gay marriage statement, with mayors in Boston and San Francisco telling the company to open elsewhere, a massive crowd showed Wednesday in support of the Orland Park franchise.

 

The wait around 3 p.m. Wednesday was two hours through a winding line at Orland Park Chick-fil-A’s parking lot just to get to the front door.

“I like their view on marriage and I believe we should have the freedom to at least express our views on it,” said Susan Soulian, who drove an hour from Wilmington to wait in the long line. “That’s all they did. You can’t let a business not set up because of a different viewpoint.”

Soulian was among a steady flow of people numbering in the thousands who appeared at the Orland Park Chick-fil-A franchise throughout Wednesday, to show support after public officials denounced the company’s stance against gay marriage.

The fallout, including Chicago Mayor Rahm Emanuel’s own statement about the company’s values “are not Chicago’s values,” started with a comment made by Chick-fil-A president and chief operating officer Dan Cathy.

According to the Baptist Press article by K. Allan Blume:

Some have opposed the company's support of the traditional family. "Well, guilty as charged," said Cathy when asked about the company's position.

In response to the outcries against the company, Fox News pundit and former governor Mike Huckabee created a Facebook event called Chick-fil-A Appreciation Day, though the company had no formal involvement.

“This is not a Chick-fil-A event, nor a Chick-fil-A sponsored event,” said Cassie Dignan, marketing director for the Orland Park restaurant. “It was started by fans of Chick-fil-A. “We just heard through the news that we should probably get ready. We had a lot of people call last week that they’d be coming.”

Dignan said an exact number of customers wouldn’t be available until after business hours, but a long wrap around line outside the restaurant – that one patient patron said took about two hours just to get inside – started forming around 9 a.m. Wednesday.

“Some people were waiting in line at 5:30 a.m. before we opened,” Dignan said. “This was way bigger than our grand opening. It’s just been crazy. We’re just a chicken place that’s here to serve really great chicken and treat people with honor, dignity and respect.”

Former Michigan State Senator Cameron Brown and his wife Helen drove about two-and-a-half hours to Orland Park from Kalamazoo, Michigan to support the company.

“This is a fundamental expression of everything we believe as Americans,” Cameron Brown said about visiting the Orland franchise. “Mr. Cathy has been well-mannered. He made a statement about marriage and he has a right to do that. It’s hard to imagine this is happening in America. We feel this is the most patriotic expression we can do.”

Cameron Brown further said statements from Emanuel and other mayors are “mean-spirited and un-American.”

Becky Howard came from Bridgeview to offer her support at the Orland location, but chose to open doors for people leaving rather than wait in the long line.

“I don’t believe in same sex marriage, but I do think if we don’t stand up for our rights they could take away our freedom of speech,” Howard said. “It bothers me that we live in a country where we should have freedom of speech and it could be taken away just because we believe differently.”

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  • What do you think about Chick-fil-A’s stance on gay marriage, and the response they have received?

    (Voting has been closed for this question)
    • I have no problem with gay marriage, but politicians have no right to interfere with a business based on their beliefs.
        11 (35%)
    • I am against gay marriage. I’m proud of Chick-fil-A for standing up for their, and my, beliefs.
        10 (32%)
    • Businesses take a risk when they bring their personal beliefs into the public forum. Whatever backlash Chick-fil-A receives, they brought it on themselves.
        10 (32%)
    Total votes: 31
  • Your vote will only count once. This is not a scientific poll. View Results Vote!
Related Topics: Chick-Fil-A, Chick-fil-A Orland Park, Dan Cathy, Gay Marriage, and mike huckabee

phxdr

9:17 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Why not for the sake of argument, say that being gay is a choice for these people. What else is a choice? Well, religion is a choice. So now I want to give a hypothetical. Instead of a company funding and being against gays and gay marriage, lets now insert that the company is against Christians and has funded money to lobby for a law to make Christians second class citizens.

Think they would be welcomed in your community Christians?

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Sara Waters

9:19 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Fox News declared if you did not support Chickfila you are a bigot.

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phxdr

9:52 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Fox News is as biased as MSNBC. I trust neither one. I am also not saying that it is right for the City of Chicago to not allow this company to open a branch there. What I am saying is that we have a HUGE group of hypocrites seen supporting this company.

These are people who clearly have too much time on their hands and by the looks of them when I drove by probably eat at fast food places a lot. They have been fed the lie that this country was founded on Christianity and as such will not be satisfied until it is a theocracy run by Christian fascists.

They lack respect and feel the need to interfere in the lives of other people who do not believe what they believe. Let me give an example of what I am saying. Most normal people when asked about gay marriage say "I don't believe in gay marriage therefore I am not marrying someone of the same sex". These people however feel that because it goes against their beliefs it should just not be allowed period.

I do not believe in Christianity but do you see me and others fighting to make a law to make Christians second class citizens because I do not agree with their "choice"? I am looking forward to the ruling of the Supreme Court as there will be lots of angry Christians after the ruling.

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Will Joseph

11:34 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Oh, Sara. What else would you EXPECT Faux News to declare?

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AtlantiCat

5:15 pm on Thursday, August 2, 2012

No, if you DO support Chick-fil-a, you are a bigot. They got the wrong word there.

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Will Joseph

5:24 pm on Thursday, August 2, 2012

phxdr:

Your hypothesis is simple, well-stated and absolutely on the mark.

NO WONDER not one of Patch's Ultra-Right-Wing-Looney-Tune posters has challenged it!

Sara Waters

9:17 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Maybe you can point out (since everyone is in the supportive mood here) that the Food Pantry and Pet Pantry are still in need of donations (and gift cards would work too) and the address to drop it off.

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Dean Casper

10:45 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Many people were at the Orland Chick fil A tonight. Many Christians of every race and socio economic staus supporting the tenets of their beliefs.There were 1st Amendment advocates such as myself protesting thug politicians who would use the power of their office to enforce their ideology.
Many of them think "this is my town and if you want to make a living here you will think what I want you to think"

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Karen Hayes

10:50 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Phxdr - that's exactly what Rahm Emmanual and others are trying to do - make Christians and other people of faith second class citizens by telling them they're not welcome to do business in their jurisdiction.

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Barbara Ariagno

1:36 pm on Thursday, August 2, 2012

Karen great comment to Phxdr. This person is totally confused. I'm glad you pointed out her ignorance on the matter. She should read all of Dean Caspers replies as his comments are right on. Intellegent man.

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Dean Casper

2:50 pm on Thursday, August 2, 2012

Thank you Barbara! You made my day! ;)

Will Joseph

11:32 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Why does Chick-fil-A have a COW as its mascot? Judging by the mindless masses I saw in line earlier today outside the Orland Park restaurant, Chick-fil-A's mascot SHOULD be the SHEEP.

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Will Joseph

11:41 pm on Wednesday, August 1, 2012

One more thing.

Patch headline:

"Thousands At OP Chick-fil-A Supporting Free Speech and ‘Traditional’ Marriage"

Ah, good old "traditional marriage." Which, in 50 percent of all cases, is followed by good old "traditional divorce."

(The fundamentalists really HATE IT when that gets pointed out to them.)

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Sara Waters

8:14 am on Thursday, August 2, 2012

If these so called Christians would read their bible and what it says traditional marriage is, they'd vomit. It's disgusting.

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Barbara Ariagno

1:28 pm on Thursday, August 2, 2012

Hmmm, Will Joseph you sound like a very bitter man. Lighten up. Guess you'd like the government telling you what you can say and what you may be able to believe or they will refuse you employment or to open a business. Is that what you want???????

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Will Joseph

5:11 pm on Thursday, August 2, 2012

Love me some Sara!

AT LAST! Someone who's actually READ the Bible! AND who knows what it means!

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Julie

6:16 pm on Thursday, August 2, 2012

Sara Waters...enlighten us with some Biblical references that make you believe that traditional marriage would make the rest of us want to vomit. I'd love to review them.
Remember that much of the Mosaic law was fulfilled by Jesus so be sure to include many NT references as well as OT.....

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Advocate

10:49 pm on Thursday, August 2, 2012

True. Very sad that the gay couples who've been loyal to each other for many years...who buy homes, cars and pets together, who stick together through thick and thin aren't allowed to profess their love and commitment to each other in a civil ceremony. Change is coming. *\O/*

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Laura B

3:34 pm on Sunday, August 5, 2012

Here ya go Julie:
http://www.upworthy.com/the-top-8-ways-to-be-traditionally-married-according-to-the-bible?g=2&c=la2
look up the verses in the bible - you can't even make this shit up it's actually in the bible

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Julie

4:37 pm on Sunday, August 5, 2012

Laura B....like I said "Remember that much of the Mosaic law was fulfilled by Jesus so be sure to include many NT references as well as OT"
Every reference which has been taken completely out of historical context is from the Old Testament.
I will give you some NT thoughts on marriage:
Mark 10:11-12
Luke 16:18
1 Corinthians 7:10-11
Ephesians 5:21-25 (Don't read this and leave out verse 28!)
Ephesians 5:31
Oh, why not just read all of Ephesians 5....
Hebrews 13:4
Clearly you don't understand the OT. I'm not a theologian, but at least I understand that the OT laws were meant to be formational in order to bring the people from worshiping gold cows to the point where they would be ready to hear Jesus' message.

Dean Casper

7:16 am on Thursday, August 2, 2012

The intellectual dishonestly of the Left. When liberals lose the argument on the facts, they resort to the name calling, as "Will Joseph" demonstrates.
"Mindless masses"? "Sheep"? Way to elevate to debate.
Atheist, secular progressives who claim such tolerance demonstrate the opposite when Christians exercise their rights.
There was a 3 hour walk in wait, the drive thru line was a half mile long. What should make you liberals terrified, all those "haters and bigots" and "sheep" are going to be voting in November.

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Sara Waters

8:16 am on Thursday, August 2, 2012

No one cares if the CEO used his own $$ to give to whatever cause he wants. He used $5 million or Corporate money. Corporations cannot have religious beliefs because unlike some people's beliefs, Corporations are not people.

Calling names???? Fox News called everyone who didn't buy chemicals in a package today a bigot, an Anti-Christian. It seems all these "Christians" never act Christian like.

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Dean Casper

9:59 am on Thursday, August 2, 2012

Liberals always take upon themselves to tell other people what they can do with their money, and spend other peoples money without consent. Chick fil A is a private company with president, Board of Directors. If Mr Cathy is spending company money on causes they do not approve, the Board will stop it. If You don't approve, don't eat there. If enough citizens feel as you, the company will change or go out of business.
The government has no place in this. Business licenses should not be subject to the Thought Police.
Furthermore, liberals often describe any opinion that disagrees with them and their rigged dogma as "Hate Speech". What Mr Cathy said was hardly that

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Will Joseph

5:18 pm on Thursday, August 2, 2012

Sara is right. Casper is wrong. That's all there is to it.

(And FYI, Casper? Unlike you, apparently, I'm only arrogant enough to think of myself as an ASPIRING Christian. That, of course, is because any direct comparison of myself to Jesus Christ ALWAYS leaves me in the dust. Always has. Always will.)

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Dean Casper

8:08 pm on Thursday, August 2, 2012

What's this Casper is wrong stuff?

vicky

7:51 am on Thursday, August 2, 2012

Obama just changed his stance on gay marriage within the last few months, where
was the outrage against him? Rahm Emmanuel needs to focus on the horrendous
murder rate in Chicago instead of bullying businesses, oh I forgot that's Chicago
thug politics. What a disgrace!! Great to see the support for Chick-fil-A & show them what we can do in November.

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phxdr

1:03 pm on Thursday, August 2, 2012

Vicky- No offense intended on this. Do you understand how the electoral system in the United States works? Illinois is going to go to Obama. There are only a few battle ground states in the country and all polls show when Obama is matched against Romney in those states Obama wins. Nothing is a for sure thing. I think you and many others are in for a disappointment come November though.

Julie

8:01 am on Thursday, August 2, 2012

Will Joseph - will you be saying the same thing about the 'mindless masses' who are supposed to show up on Friday at Chick-Fil-A on Friday? Oh, right...they are somehow not 'mindless' because they agree with you....funny how that works isn't it?

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Susan

9:16 am on Thursday, August 2, 2012

What is the difference between Chick-Fil-A advocating traditional marriage, and Home Depot supporting gay rights? I followed my conviction by taking my business elsewhere, but I will not deny their right as a company to set up shop, or support whatever they wish.

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Arthur Huff

1:30 pm on Thursday, August 2, 2012

Allow me to end this debate for all of America so we can move on to important issues: The CEO of Chick-fil-A is an American citizen. Perhaps we have all forgotten, but even though you may disagree with him he is still entitled to have his own opinion and speak his own mind. If you'd like me to cite my source on that please see Amendment 1 to the US Constitution.

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frank

1:35 pm on Thursday, August 2, 2012

Debate OVER!

From
"SEE to Shining SEE", AH.

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Will Joseph

5:28 pm on Thursday, August 2, 2012

OR:

"SHEEP to Shining SHEEP". AH.

Barbara Ariagno

1:43 pm on Thursday, August 2, 2012

Fox news is all over this and rightly so. If you want to hear what the smart people are thinking on this matter you should tune in to Fox. O'Reilly is fantastic and looking out for all you liberals who need to be enlightened. Speaking of sheep..........

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Will Joseph

5:20 pm on Thursday, August 2, 2012

My goodness! Apparently, I've struck a nerve . . .

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Laura B

3:38 pm on Sunday, August 5, 2012

Barbara - you are joking, right?

Arthur Huff

1:50 pm on Thursday, August 2, 2012

These conversations often erode into bickering about Fox News vs. MSNBC or Left vs. Right. But I really think on this issue we are losing sight of what is important (just on the issue, certainly not in the big scheme of things)...elected officials in Chicago and other large cities have basically spat on the Constitution. Rahm Emanuel and Proco Moreno either aren't familiar with the First Amendment or simply don't care about it. But to me either one is a HUGE problem. The Constitution applies to ALL citizens, not just the ones that the government happens to agree with at a certain point in time. Not that I care about Wrigley Field, but look what happened to the Cubs because of their family's political views.

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frank

1:57 pm on Thursday, August 2, 2012

Arthur, Twenty-five minutes ago you wanted to end the debate.

Calling on the cubbie guys will only prolong it.

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Arthur Huff

2:06 pm on Thursday, August 2, 2012

That's a fair point. People shouldn't talk about politics and religion...but if they do they certainly shouldn't bring the Cubs into it.

vicky

5:21 pm on Thursday, August 2, 2012

@phxdr How stupid do you think I am? I know Illinois is going for Obama.
Didn't vote for him the first time & definitely not now. Don't be over confident.
Polls mean nothing from now until then. Votes on election day count.

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Laura B

3:39 pm on Sunday, August 5, 2012

If you vote for Romney you are voting for the exact reason of what is wrong with this country.

AtlantiCat

5:33 pm on Thursday, August 2, 2012

The meaning of the word bigotry is expressing hatred and intolerance for folk who are different from you.

Chick-fil-a donates to groups that support bigotry.

Last I checked, Jesus asked people to love their neighbors as themselves.

So, can somebody explain to me why supporting a business that supports bigotry in any way Christian? I seriously don't get it.

I agree that everybody has a right to free speech, and everybody can say what they want, even if what they say is hate speech. However, how can anybody who expresses hatred for their neighbors, regardless of race, creed, or sexual orientation honestly call him/herself a Christian? Jesus did not say "love your neighbor as long as he is similar to yourself." Jesus did not say "hate and intolerance is okay if your neighbor is different." He said to love your neighbor, period.

What scares me is that 50 years ago, this sort of widespread intolerance was pointed not at gays but at blacks. What's the difference between this fight and the fight for legalized interracial marriage? This is just racism and xenophobia reborn into a new "modern" package for the 21st century. It's sickening.

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frank

5:48 pm on Thursday, August 2, 2012

Say ac, second sentence states "supports bigotry.

How, what, where, when, and why?

Are you suffering from S U S ?

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Julie

6:01 pm on Thursday, August 2, 2012

This is where you are wrong, completely wrong on many levels. You don't get it because you don't understand Christian teaching. It's not bigotry...
Love the sinner, hate the sin.
Christianity does not teach that we should judge or hate those living with same sex attraction. Living an unchaste lifestyle is a sin, no matter who you are having sex with. Christianity does however, require that we admonish the sinner and let them know that they are sinning, we are to instruct the ignorant, so that they can repent and change their ways, and return to Christ...to love their neighbor as themselves.
I don't know one Christian who has said they hate anyone who is different from them.

Does the HRC spread the word of tolerance for people who don't agree with them???? Nope, those who don't agree with them are wrong and are denying people of some made up human right of 'sexual orientation'.

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AtlantiCat

6:23 pm on Thursday, August 2, 2012

@Frank--Chick-fil-a has donated to the Marriage & Family Legacy Fund, National Christian Foundation, and Focus On The Family. All of these groups have spread hatred and intolerance in the guise of Christianity. This is bigotry.

@Julie--I was raised Catholic and it IS bigotry. There are no two ways about it. Teaching "love the sinner and hate the sin" is flawed because you can NOT love somebody and yet hate their actions--it's fundamentally impossible. The doctrine is an excuse to hate. Jesus taught that hate is wrong. Jesus was right. You are wrong.

Furthermore, being gay is not "a lifestyle," it is a fundamental way of existence, much as heterosexuality is a fundamental way of existence. Gay people don't just have gay sex, so you can conveniently create a so-called "Christian" doctrine about just hating gay sex. Gay people simply ARE gay. This is not a choice. Think about it--if you were given a choice between being accepted by society and shunned, would you choose to be shunned? Would you choose to be bullied as a child, harassed as an adult, and (in some countries) RAPED to try to "correct" your condition? WHO would voluntarily choose such a lifestyle? If there's no logical reason for choosing to be gay, then being gay can NOT be a choice.

Therefore, you can not love the sinner and hate the sin. There is no separating the two. That is a flawed doctrine and believing in it is a certain path to Hell. Jesus would be ashamed.

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Will Joseph

7:40 pm on Thursday, August 2, 2012

Um, frank and Julie?

AtlantiCat is kicking your sorry, ignorant butts . . .

frank

5:41 pm on Thursday, August 2, 2012

DISCOVERY of NOTE===

I took the comments of the jibber-jabber religious zealots and made a voice mail. Upon playing it BACKWARDS, I was treated to a fine rendition of the LOONEY TUNES theme sign-off!

THAT'S ALL FOLKS!

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Julie

5:50 pm on Thursday, August 2, 2012

phxdr - you say "They lack respect and feel the need to interfere in the lives of other people who do not believe what they believe." NO, that would be the Obama admin...HHS Mandate anyone??
You say "
Let me give an example of what I am saying. Most normal people when asked about gay marriage say "I don't believe in gay marriage therefore I am not marrying someone of the same sex". These people however feel that because it goes against their beliefs it should just not be allowed period."
Not quite....most normal people stop and realize that each gender plays a role in the survival of the species and that without a woman, two men can't have a baby. Likewise, without a man, two women can't have a baby.
It's not about belief....that's just more moral relativism blather! It's larger than me and mine do for me and mine...it's about society in general and then some.
You don't have to believe in Christianity to see that a man and woman were made for each other physically and that the result of that human physical union is the propagation of the species. It's just how we are, and I'm not sure why that's so hard for so many to understand.

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frank

6:22 pm on Thursday, August 2, 2012

Say Julie,

I understand Abra Kadabra better than what you BLATTER.

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AtlantiCat

6:32 pm on Thursday, August 2, 2012

Julie--I am a woman who has produced no children. Nor will I ever produce children. And I will never propagate the species. Did it never occur to you, as a "normal person," that your God, whilst intending humans to propagate the species, also might have built some automatic "birth control" into the species as well? If we are fruitful and multiply continuously and forever, we will overrun and destroy the planet. Maybe some of us were not meant to reproduce. Did you, as a "normal person," ever stop to think that? If God created us all, then he created gays as well as straights.

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phxdr

12:02 am on Friday, August 3, 2012

JULIE, JULIE, JULIE- I honestly went back and forth if this is even worth my time to explain. I am going to provide a link to Wikipedia on the list of MAMMALS who show homosexual behaviors (this is just mammals). I also want to point out that if you took your eyes out of your book about a imaginary all powerful space daddy in the sky long enough to pick up a history, biology book you would understand that homosexuality is not uncommon in nature or human history.

Ancient Greece (Alexander the Great for one example) had many homosexuals in it. Ancient Maya empire also had homosexuals in it and were celebrated in many pre-colombian and pre- polynesian people. If it was a learned human behavior it would not have been there prior to European colonization. Instead we find homosexual behavior in humans on every continent in every people (proof is in paintings, petroglyphs and writings) prior to contact.

Finally you have to blame no one but you and your fellow right wing bible lovers for your problems with government and religion. It was known by the founders of this country that a secular government was needed to protect the government and the people as well as the religions in the new country. You have allowed and encouraged the cozy relationship with government and religion and then wonder why there are problems.

You are with all due respect short sided.

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Julie

7:44 am on Friday, August 3, 2012

phxdr....lame animal argument. My dog eats sticks, rolls in poop and licks her butt...doesn't mean I should!
Female praying mantis' bite their mates head off after mating, some animal mom's will kill and eat their weakest offspring...this doesn't mean it's ok for humans!

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Julie

7:46 am on Friday, August 3, 2012

Frank - get your nose out of the crossword puzzle dictionary and read what I typed and maybe you will get it. What's so hard to understand about a man and a woman 'fit' together?

Advocate

6:24 pm on Thursday, August 2, 2012

I cannot believe the self-proclaimed "Christians" commenting on here. First of all, take a grammar lesson. None of you are writing correctly. Second, set an example for the kids in Orland. You come across like a bunch of cross-burning zealots and you are an embarrassment to the rest of us who are raising our children to accept people who are different. Are you the same people who remember segregation and sigh about the "good ol' days"? If not, how can you be "for" equal rights and also "against" equal rights? Does that sound Christ-like? Third, did any of you think about how this would affect the people working at Chick-Fil-A yesterday? They were very likely unprepared for your Christian onslaught. I am sure that at least one of the teenagers working yesterday made a ton of really gay sandwiches, nuggets and waffle fries just for you. Gay doesn't "show" on the outside, so you've probably also insulted some people that you think you're really close to. If these are your "family values," then you are either raising some very arrogant, hateful, self-righteous kids or your children are going to ask you not to talk like that around their friends because it sounds so asinine.

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frank

6:31 pm on Thursday, August 2, 2012

Advocate, Are you still suffering from S U S?

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frank

6:40 pm on Thursday, August 2, 2012

AtlantiCat,

Still not a proper answer to my reply request.

It takes some time but S U S can be taken care of.

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AtlantiCat

7:49 pm on Thursday, August 2, 2012

Frank--You want me to support my statement by giving you specific examples of exactly what bigotry I'm talking about, is that what you're asking?

If so, apparently you think my time is best spent doing research and documenting things for you. I happen to disagree as you are not paying me for my time.

If you want to say, "Hey, you can't support your statement in the exact manner and fashion I require you to do, therefore because everything must be done exactly as I say it must be done, your statement must be wrong!" feel free to do so. I am not governed by your arbitrary rules.

If you want examples, I suggest you Google Them. Or I could be really sarcastic and type in "Let Me Google That For You" or post a link to the LMGTFY website.

If you're asking something else, then please restate your request in plain English. I am not suffering from Single UNIX Specification or Stochastic Universal Sampling at the moment.

Julie

7:59 pm on Thursday, August 2, 2012

AtlantiCat - just because you are not capable of separating a person from their actions doesn't mean that the rest of the world is incapable of it...just you.
"I am a woman who has produced no children. Nor will I ever produce children. And I will never propagate the species." Further proof that there is a God.
Yes, I am fully aware that it's not God's plan for everyone to procreate...but the physiological design is still there. You are the one who started using the term 'normal'. It's not a term I generally use. I just wanted to use terms you were already familiar with.
Let's not slide down the road of overpopulation as a reason that gay is ok. UGH, what a lame argument.
Yes, God created everyone, with all their flaws which can be congenital or developed(heart defects, extra chromosomes, chromosome deletions, club feet, gender id issues, amputees, accident victims, etc.) what's your point. They are all perfect in His eyes and he wants them to live good and chaste lives.

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AtlantiCat

6:55 am on Friday, August 3, 2012

Julie--Just because you are not capable of understanding that "gayness" is inherent in a person's make-up and not a choice doesn't make "hate the sin and love the sinner" a true or correct doctrine...just your personal (flawed) belief. Being gay is just like being straight--You Do Not Choose It. You Are Born That Way. No matter how much YOU personally want to make it a choice so you can "hate the sin and love the sinner," it is NOT a choice. It never has been and it never will be. I did not choose to be heterosexual, I simply AM heterosexual. Just as I am simply a woman. Just as you are both of these.

And I would like to note that I did not stoop to personal insults...you don't know the reason why I can't reproduce and it's VERY un-Christian of you to say that it's proof there is a God. That's a VERY hurtful and ignorant statement.

Your exact quote, "Not quite....most normal people stop and realize that each gender plays a role in the survival of the species..." There's the word NORMAL, you started using it.

I did not say at any point that being gay is okay because of overpopulation. I am suggesting that perhaps your God built in a failsafe mechanism to help prevent it. If your God is all-powerful and all-knowing and all-seeing, surely he must have seen the possibility coming?

God created everyone. Therefore, God created people, gay and straight. If a gay person is perfect in His eyes, who are you to judge that person? Your own words convict you.

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Julie

7:36 am on Friday, August 3, 2012

AtlantiCat
I apologize for the 'Further proof that there is a God' comment.
I never said being gay was a choice....acting on ones sexual urges is most certainly a choice, regardless of what those urges are.
Actually it was PHXDR who started using the term 'normal' and that is to whom my post was addressed when I started using normal. Then you jumped in and started using 'normal', in your response to me, so I used it in return.

I'm done here....I have too much to do today to waste more time on this type of unproductive banter.

Carin

10:30 pm on Thursday, August 2, 2012

Question: Everyone is claiming to praise Chick-full-of-hate for exercising their 1st Amendment right of freedom of speech and freedom of religion. What's the difference between them and Westboro Baptist Church? They protest solider's funerals exercising their Freedom of Speech and Freedom of Religion. Are the chick full of hate supporters going to stand behind this so called Church and support them? Will you have a Westboro Appreciation Day? Most likely not. Because it's nothing to do with the 1st Amendment and everything to do with the fact that you think Gay people are icky.

I'll might just stop by Chick-full-of-hate tomorrow and kiss a girl

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Dean Casper

11:07 pm on Thursday, August 2, 2012

I find it interesting that President Obama held the same position until a few months ago when his gay fundraiser bundlers threatened to hold their money unless he came out for Gay Marriage.
To date, he has offered no legislation to legalize Gay Marriage. Not exactly a profile in leadership.

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AtlantiCat

7:05 am on Friday, August 3, 2012

Dean--President Obama held the position that being gay was not a choice but a matter of genetics, as far back as 2004. At the time, he also admitted that his stance on gays and gay marriage was still evolving. A few months ago, he came out in support of gay marriage.

Legislation to legalize gay marriage would not in any way pass the current Congress as it stands. So he's leaving it to the States.

In my opinion, that is an example of an intelligent man showing that he is capapble of thinking things through, and changing his mind when the facts are laid out before him. He is showing that he is capable of maturing and evolving as a leader. He is showing that rigid, unchanging, and ultimately unfair belief systems hold no place in Government.

Sounds like an excellent leader to me.

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Dean Casper

7:51 am on Friday, August 3, 2012

Both parties often offer legislation that has zero chance of passage. President Obama's plan for massive tax increases in a recession is an example. Offering such ground breaking legislation would elevate the debate. He can use the bully pulpit like Kennedy and Johnson did in the 60s.
Attacking achievement, dividing the country, burdening our children and grandchildren with enormous debt a great leader does not make

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AtlantiCat

7:11 am on Saturday, August 4, 2012

Dean--To what plan for massive tax increases do you refer? Last I checked, the only tax increases President Obama proposed were 4% on the top 1%. I would hardly call that a massive tax increase on somebody who is making billions per year. I realize you think this is attacking success, but the marginal tax rates have been MUCH higher in the past (go look it up) and very few complained about it then.

And the current Republican plan for taxes would add several billion to the debt, hardly a better deal than Obama's plan.

Obama has never divided the country. Please explain where this occurred?

You do realize that BUSH II was responsible for the huge debt currently burdening our children and grandchildren? When Clinton left office, we had a SURPLUS. Bush II took that and turned it into the worst debt in the history of the United States.

But Obama's responsible for all of it because facts should never get in the way of a good argument....

phxdr

12:24 am on Friday, August 3, 2012

Here is my last post on this issue.

People in favor of gay marriage: This is not a big deal. There have been huge gains in rulings in court and in public opinion. Keep in mind that civil rights of a minority will always lose in a vote by the majority (which is why in part the judicial branch is there). These people can do all the referendums they wish to outlaw gay marriage, but when it reaches the Supreme Court they will see that it is discriminatory to a minority. The Court also understands the danger in majority tyrannny (the founders of this nation were aware of the danger also). These people will be seen as equal in the eyes of the government.

To those who oppose to gay marriage: I have to wonder if you really have a life. You guys keep going to Chick fil a and in the future the gays will still get their rights and you will be stuck with hate, diabetes and some weight issues. Remember that this country is changing and how you are treating a minority today you very well may be treated in the future when you are a minority (Christians).

"Unlimited tolerance must lead to the disappearance of tolerance. If we extend unlimited tolerance even to those who are intolerant, if we are not prepared to defend a tolerant society against the onslaught of the intolerant, then the tolerant will be destroyed, and tolerance with them." Karl Popper

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John Paul

12:38 am on Friday, August 3, 2012

Folks, this is not a question of gay marriage. It's about the government using its power to punish someone who has publicly stated a view that some in the government don't agree with. I oppose what Moreno is doing. I would be just as opposed to a Christian community denying a business license to someone who is a Muslim, or an outspoken atheist.

If you agree with Moreno, would you also agree with a Christian community (like Wheaton for example) denying Planned Parenthood an occupancy permit?

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Dean Casper

8:01 am on Friday, August 3, 2012

Right on John. Gay marriage has little to with the issue. If politicians can deny business license because of a business owner's stance on Gay marriage, Who's next on their most hated list? Smokers? Overweight people? WASPs? Catholics? A liberal politician can decide because a owner is too successful and a member of the so called 1% and not allow him/her to open.
We are in a long, devastating recession. Payroll tax receipts from wages earned are at a 31year low, underemployment is at 24%, our National Debt has exploded to $16 Trillion, we have more pressing issues to deal with.

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Carin

8:15 am on Friday, August 3, 2012

John - do you then oppose the states that have banned Westboro Baptist Church from protesting Solider's funerals? Their 1st Amendment rights were stripped from them! Where's the outrage? Where's the buses full of people storming the castle to protect their Freedom of Speech, their Freedom of Religion?

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Arthur Huff

1:00 pm on Friday, August 3, 2012

100% correct John. Unfortunately nobody would have anything to argue about if they acknowledged that truth so they have to focus on fringe issues to keep the debate going.

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John Paul

12:51 am on Saturday, August 4, 2012

Carin, as much as the Westboro people disgust me, I defend their right not to be picked on by government if they are not disobeying the law. you can't pick and choose whose rights are defendable and those whose aren't. Now, if the Westboro people are trespassing on private property, that's a different issue. I would not agree if a municipality denied the pastor of that group a business license if he met all of the requirements.

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AtlantiCat

7:15 am on Saturday, August 4, 2012

John--this has nothing to do with the CEO's beliefs. If he believed that we were all a bunch of demons from outer space, the government wouldn't give a rat's tail. It's all about his ACTIONS. He donated his company's profits to known hate groups.

If he'd donated to the KKK or the Nazi Party, we wouldn't be having this discussion right now. But because these hate groups are pretending to be Christian, suddenly everybody's outraged. They are not Christian. Hate is not Christian. It's just wrong.

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Arthur Huff

9:36 am on Saturday, August 4, 2012

AtlantiCat, so we are all clear, are you OK with the government deciding who can and can't do business based solely on their beliefs?

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AtlantiCat

6:24 am on Sunday, August 5, 2012

Arthur--No. But I am perfectly comfortable having the government block a business based on that business's willingness to support hate groups. As I said, if the CEO had been donating the company's profits to the KKK or the Nazi Party, we wouldn't be having this discussion.

Dean Casper

8:22 am on Friday, August 3, 2012

Apples to oranges. The issue with Westboro was whether they can protest at the gravesites. No, they can't. The 1st Amendment constrains the government, not private citizens. An owner of private property can prevent anyone from expressing their views on their property. This is why protestors are limited to public property, so you can kiss your girl on the sidewalk

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Carin

8:32 am on Friday, August 3, 2012

The are not citizens, They are a tax free church. The CHURCH is protesting. It's the same issue. Just admit you don't like the gays and be done with it. This is what it's about. BTW, on the bigot twitter page, there are LOTS of comments how the Westboro Church is the new spokesfamily for Chick Fil A . "New ChickFilA spokesfamily @WBCFredJr Every member of WBC will eat at #chickfila at least once before the week is out."

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Dean Casper

9:46 am on Friday, August 3, 2012

Just because extremists agree on a position does not make everyone an extremist. Liberals taking everything to the extreme again. Venezuelan strongman Hugo Chavez endorsed Obama, this, in and of itself, does not make Obama a dictator.
The government has no right to impose a thought standard on regulation of commerce. Again, she my post on where this ends. You may cheer the pols running out a business that disagrees with you on Gay marriage, but what happens when Rahm goes after a business because they support a cause you support?
Liberal free speech, you can only talk, own a business, or live in my town if you agree with the oppressive rulers. That is completely un-American.
Cardinal George said it best, we do not have to submit our values to the government for approval. The scariest part is the man promoting this nonsense was the Chief of Staff to the most powerful man in the world, well until our debt he is creating drags us down behind China.

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Carin

10:11 am on Friday, August 3, 2012

And you feel the same way so long as I believe your christian beliefs. Which I do not. I don't remember you standing up for the Muslims when they wanted a Mosque to be built. I don't recall you at the Village meetings telling all the protesters they are infringing on the 1st Amendment rights of the Muslims.

You throw Obama into this as if he has ANYTHING to do with this.

laura

9:35 am on Friday, August 3, 2012

Want to make a statement supporting rights of gays to legal marriage? Attend today's Same-Sex Kiss-a-Chik demonstration at Chik-Fil-A in OP. Equal rights; equal time. This isn't the '50s any longer.

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frank

10:40 am on Friday, August 3, 2012

Should Chik & Lowes be overcrowded, a second site for the KISS-IN is scheduled for Maple Lake at the Port-a Potty between 1-2pm.

Bring sun screen.

Name tags are optional.

Please don't tip the Potty, remember that others use the facility.

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Carin

10:21 am on Friday, August 3, 2012

Here's a list of companies the "Conservatives" have called out to boycott because they don't discriminate against Americans wanting basic human rights:

JC Penney
DC Comics
Electronic Arts
Marvel Comics
The Lifetime Network
Toys R U
Oreos
Levi's
Cheerios
American Apparel
Disney World
Starbucks
Wheaties
Tide
Microsoft
The Home Depot
Pampers
Pepsi
Safeway
Crest
Old Navy
Girl Scouts
Macy's
Target
Pillsbury
Wallgreens

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Julie

11:15 am on Friday, August 3, 2012

AWESOME! I don't purchase products from any of those places...except Microsoft.
When did Oreos, Tide, Crest, Wheaties & Cheerios become companies?
That would be Proctor & Gamble, General Mills, and Nabisco.
Actually I think the AFA called off their Pepsi boycott. When 500,000 customers said they would boycot Pepsi....Pepsi changed their tune.
The last boycott on the Gap (which own's Old Navy) was called for not using 'Merry Christmas' in their Christmas sale ads....

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John Paul

12:47 am on Saturday, August 4, 2012

Carin, there's a big difference between Conservatives (or Liberals) acting as individuals boycotting a business over a disagreement and Conservatives (or Liberals) acting as the government doing it.

Carin

10:25 am on Friday, August 3, 2012

Awesome! I'll have dinner at the Taste of Orland and then head on over for some smooching. Don't worry, I will lay off anything garlic! :o)

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Bill Popowski

12:30 pm on Friday, August 3, 2012

This is as good as the Jerry Springer show :-)

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Kathie

9:39 pm on Friday, August 3, 2012

When is the Patch going to implement the agree/disagree or thumbs up/thumbs down buttons on comments? I am on limited wi-fi signal at the lake... It would be easy to "hit the button" and agree or disagree, without rewriting similar thoughts. :)

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frank

9:44 pm on Friday, August 3, 2012

"S U S" is again sweeping the "common-taters"

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AtlantiCat

7:17 am on Saturday, August 4, 2012

You still haven't explained what that's supposed to mean.

Carol

11:00 am on Wednesday, August 8, 2012

How come you can say your for it and that is ok, but if you say your against it, that makes people mad. So what, everyone has their own opinion, not everyone has to be for gay marriages.

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Dean Casper

11:55 am on Wednesday, August 8, 2012

That is the very point I am making. No matter the issue, liberals, especially Liberals holding public office, demand 100% compliance with their political agenda or they will use the power of their office to make life very difficult for you.
Speak out against any Iiberal initiative and suddenly you are having a zoning problem, etc. unemployment and underemployment are at historic levels. We need jobs! Here you have liberal politicians holding ideology over employment. They would rather deny their economically oppressed constituents an opportunity to work and make a living than allow a CEO voice opposition to liberal ideology.

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